We were both always aware of the existence of other lovers, but it was clear that we were each other's favorite.It occurred to us that we could keep the excitement and variety, and still let ourselves fall in love with each other. And since then I’ve gotten a lot of questions about how we make it work and why we would even do that in the first place.Or as Dan Savage calls it, we are “monogamish.” Even that can look really different from relationship to relationship.
"There are the kind people engage in because their partner is a rock star or a politician and they're getting something else out of the situation, like status.She's not going to sweat the small stuff — unless it's your brain.10. Whether it's for a few minutes, a few hours or a few decades, this will be an experience you won't forget.So let go of your preconceptions and hold onto your hat, your heart, and the headboard. You will be attracted to people outside your relationship Having an open relationship has never been my goal, but I’m not going to bury my head in romantic sand.The truth is that staying monogamous is a challenge.